亨利觀點：要憐憫

要憐憫 Have Mercy

我們下意識的記憶會影響我們的行為。大家不會總是曉得為什麼自己做了這些事，因為我們的記憶埋藏在我們潛意識的很深層裡面，因此不自覺地忘掉了它。然而我們的腦袋記得所有的事情，縱使我們沒有很清醒地注意到發生在我們身上的事。

如果我們發現有些人的某種特殊的行徑，記住他們可能並不察覺到自己在做什麼。即便你向他們指明了，他們可能仍視而不見。所以我們更因此要有憐憫之心，另言之，因為自己的緣故，對別人犯的錯，要有耐心包容。

當然，很多時候我們也會犯下錯誤，甚至難以憐憫自己所犯下的錯誤，但我們仍應盡力而為，共勉。
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Subconscious memory affects behavior. People don’t always know why they do some of the things they do. We have memories buried deep within us that our conscious mind has forgotten about. The brain remembers everything. Even the things we don’t consciously notice happening to us.

If you find someone acting in a peculiar way, remember that they might not realize they’re doing it. Even if you point it out to them, they might not see it. All the more reason to be merciful. In other words, be patient with other people’s faults.

Of course, you have your own faults too which may make it difficult for you to be merciful, but do your best.